They say that when it comes to relationships, the girls are the talkers while the boys are the listeners. Many have already broken this stereotype. However, you can’t guarantee that your man will be one of these who have prided themselves to be unique. He’s not stepping up to the plate and now, you’re getting antsy. You can always just end the relationship, but that doesn’t always help. Feelings are involved and maybe, just maybe, he needs time to full open up. Your man isn’t intent on keeping his past or his present from you. You also know when what he does feel for you is genuine. So, rather than wait for time to just give you the opportunity to know more, you can also do something about it. You can get the ball roiling without making him think that you’re a nag.

First of all, practice patience. Give him time to realize the fact that you’ll accept him no matter what. If he really loves you the way you think he does, then he will also work hard at making the relationship work. Some men just find it a challenge to make the next move and because this is a two-way street, let him know that you’re interested in him knowing how he is. Your greatest ally right now is your temper. Therefore, don’t let this fail you when the time comes. Otherwise, you might just end up regretting what you do. Look at how he treats you as well and as long as you feel loved, that’s already one thing that you can take comfort in.

Moreover, you can even choose to add some excitement in the relationship by being mysterious yourself. This doesn’t mean that you should lie through your teeth some of the times. Rather, keep him guessing about what you do next. This will add some spark, and with romance, two people are more likely to find the connection they so need. Aside from that, observe what he likes doing. Share experiences together and enjoy these moments. Have conversations that talk about everyday things. Don’t jump into serious topics immediately because he may not look forward to your moments together if you hound him with too many questions. This way, he may even agree to spend more nights together because he sees you as a fun and swell partner.

As time passes by, you can be gutsier with your questions. Just remember to tread into sensitive topics lightly. Don’t let him feel that you’re asking such questions because you’re judging. Be honest about your answers as well and let the communication flow. Hold his hand and smile to let him know that you’re still enjoying his company no matter how serious the moment gets. Show him that you appreciate the straightforward talk and intersperse these with funny anecdotes. Then, let him know that you’re not here to play games. Rather, you’re here to relish every moment you spend together as a couple. Then, watch how this will work to your advantage.