Sometimes, you have to make the first move, even if you’re a girl. Gone are the days where you have to play shy and coy because in the modern world, women are now taking the front seat of the car. So, do you have to be an outrageous flirt just to get a guy to notice you? Of course not! There are classy, tasteful, and subtle ways that you can employ to let him know that you’re interested in getting to know him better. Moreover, being too forward or assertive can actually turn him off. So, you need to be careful. This can somewhat be tricky, but not to worry because with the methods shown below, you will be able to do it.

First of all, it helps to let the guy know that you do share his interests. This doesn’t mean that you have to change your personality. Rather, it’s more about finding a common ground so that the two of you can connect better. If he’s passionate about something, you can give his hobby a shot. Who knows, you might even like it. Let his know that while you may be two different people, you will support him should the time come. At the same time, be honest about who you are as well. Never compromise the real you. Hiding things is a waste of time because getting into a relationship isn’t a game.

When your man takes you out on a date, don’t be afraid to be a little touchy-feely. Don’t put your hand on the inner portion of his thighs. It’s more about a little pat on the shoulder or a hand graze. These things should suffice. A little tap would be enough to make him notice because being too aggressive could mean that you just want a one-night stand, and anything beyond that is not important. If you really like a guy, let him also see you beyond that night. If touching is a little too difficult as he sits across you, pay him compliments. Don’t just overdo your praises because the last thing you want is to come out insincere. Be a gal who appreciates him and not some overzealous fan. Act cool because you can show him that you respect his talents and abilities without making it seem like hero worship.

Lastly, let the guy know that as much as you like him, you like yourself as well. This is all about being confident because guys appreciate girls who can stand on their own two feet. Yes, they might want to play the chivalrous card and like to feel needed every so often, but they will also love the fact that they can lean on you when they need help. Just don’t look too arrogant because this is a complete turn-off. If they pay you a compliment, nod your head, smile sincerely, and say thank you, but don’t let him elaborate all your assets because that’s just too much. A confident gal doesn’t look for praises.